Your partner popped the most awaited question to you? And, you gladly said ‘yes’, well, then it’s time you need to ask him certain questions. These questions will help you to plan your dream wedding.
A wedding day that is cherished by both of you. Avoid the stressful and time-consuming wedding planning process. You can simplify the process by answering a few questions.
Discussed below are a few questions every couple must answer before their wedding-
- How did you meet for the first time?
- As a kid, what was your favorite vacation? (family trips, summer camps, international solo trips)
- How was your first date?
- Where did you go for your first vacation together?
- Which season do you love the most?
Prepare a list of these questions and write honest answers to them. Don’t think about what your spouse likes or their preferences but simply your choice. These may appear to be minute details. But, they are quite essential details and can help you to pick your wedding venue.
You can either pick a venue that resembles the spot you both met for the first time. This will remind you of your beautiful journey. If not this, you can pick a venue that resembles the destination of your first vacation.
You can choose the venue décor based on the theme of your first date. And, you can plan your wedding day based on your favorite season. This will reduce the struggle of finding a suitable wedding date and venue.
You can simply shortlist venues based on your answers and visit them. The one that you both are happy with, can be booked for your wedding day.
- Do you like a specific flower?
- What colors do you like?
- Do you like a specific song or lyrics?
- Do you have a pet?
- Do you have a piece of traditional jewelry that you wish to wear?
The color and flower help you to decide your wedding theme and flower decoration for the venue. You don’t have to struggle through books of flower combinations. You can simply view a few combinations online and choose the one you like. These answers can be useful to pick a centerpiece as well.
Your favorite song or lyrics can be played during your wedding. The lyrics could be played when you walk the aisle or at your reception. Besides, you can wear the authentic piece of jewelry that once belonged to your grandma along with your brand new white gold wedding ring.
This will make your day all the more special and memorable.
- Which team or sport do you support?
- Which bar do you frequently visit?
- The name of your favorite restaurant
- List of your favorite munchies
- Any guilty pleasures that you would like to share?
It is your day and there is nothing better than starting your married life with your favorite drink. Therefore, begin your married life with your go-to drink. You can approach your favorite bar if they can offer services to your wedding venue.
Your spouse might be hooked on a particular sport. What does he drink while watching that sport? You can include the same drink in your Reception menu. This could be a surprise and you can enjoy the day together. If you two have contrasting tastes in drinks, then make sure to find a middle ground. A drink that both of you enjoy!
Skip the cliché wedding menus and choose a unique meal platter. This platter must consist of your favorite munchies and eliminate the regular chicken and smoked salmon combination. You can also include all your favorite food on the menu.
If you both have a sweet tooth and enjoy dessert, then include your favorite delicacy on the menu. You can approach that particular dessert place for the same.
- What are your hobbies?
- What is a different set of nicknames you have been called since childhood?
- How do you feel about your first date?
- Describe your dream date
- Your favorite movie
- Any quote from the movie or a book you read you like the most?
You can utilize these answers to enhance the vibe and overall ambiance of your Reception. But, the primary goal of asking these questions is to know each other better. At times, all the wedding preparations are very chaotic and you tend to experience the beauty of this journey.
However, these questions remind you of the time spent together. Moreover, it reminds you of how you fell for each other and the qualities that bind you together.
Wedding planning can make you anxious and create unnecessary chaos between the two of you. However, it is important to understand that it’s your relationship that will make this day special.
Make the most of this journey, create new memories and cherish your wedding day!